Black Lace Dresses and Buttons

I'm pretty sure that Kate Middleton and I would be friends if we ever met. I mean, we both love art history and we both love black lace dresses. What more do we need to have in common? I've been smitten with the black lace dresses that Kate has worn, and I think I'd like something similar to wear for my anniversary date with J.

I found on on a blog entry from the What Kate Wore website that this is the Long Sleeve Amoret Dress by Temperley London which sells for about $4,000. That's a little out of my price range!

Kate Middleton in a black lace gown by Diane von Furstenberg

Black dress by Beulah London (for only $1,000 this time!)

I love the scalloped neckline and hemline of this black lace Dolce Gabbana dress.

This Erdem dress is navy blue, but is also is really great.

This Dolce Gabbana dress is more plum-colored than black, but I like the neckline and the long sleeves.

Here are some more affordable black dress options that I like:

Scallop Lace Dress

With This Ring Dress Black (Shabby Apple)

This is a maternity dress (eek!), but I wonder if a non-pregnant person could get away wearing it.

Milly Celia Lace Dress

And on a side note, I've been thinking a lot of about small buttons and how much I love them on dresses and shoes. Speaking of Kate Middleton, look at the back of this gorgeous greenish-blue Jenny Packham gown of lace and chiffon that she wore at the London Olympic Games gala:

Also, I think I need some Victorian boots that button up. I've always wanted Victorian button boots (ever since I watched Shirley Temple put them on, while using a button hook, in A Little Princess). These are the best options that I have found so far, but I'm going to keep looking.

Thankful for Rest and Singing

I feel like Thanksgiving really has snuck up on me this year. This morning I realized that we never even got out our Thanksgiving decorations. Maybe we will get them out tonight, if we get everything else in order beforehand. Right now we are experiencing a bit of a lull in our preparations, since Lucy is napping.

I realized a few days ago that the past few months have been especially busy for me because I have an unprecedented amount of students with special needs. Over one-third of my students have some type of disability which affects their learning in a classroom setting, or have personal problems which are affecting their school performance, or they are an international student and/or an athlete. With all of these various needs (and the extra accommodations that I need to make for these students), not to mention the new challenges of teaching an art history class very early in the morning, I am worn out!

So, this Thanksgiving, I especially feel grateful for the opportunity to rest from work. I won't be resting in general, since I'll be chasing Lucy, giving Sam the attention he needs, and helping J in the kitchen. But at least I won't be worrying about work and all of my students who need help.

This Thanksgiving too, I am grateful that I sing in the university choir. Although it can be tricky to get to choir rehearsal some days (and I know that my absence creates more work for Jeremy at home), I really do love the opportunity to try to improve my vocal technique. And my choir director is such a delightful and perceptive person. I hope she never retires. I especially love that she has a background in vocal pedagogy, because I learn more things about my personal voice and technique through our rehearsals. I often feel like the vocal tips that she gives the class are intended specifically for me. (Perhaps this isn't the case, but I am paranoid all the same.) Just two days ago I learned these things:

• In order to use the "f" fricative effectively in singing, you shouldn't bite down with your "f" on the top part of your lip, because that will restrict the air flow. Instead, you should place your teeth behind your lip, so that the air can flow freely. (How logical! She gave us this advice while we were rehearsing "Fum, Fum, Fum!")
• When singing an "ah" vowel, only drop your jaw extremely far down (what I learned as the "two-finger method" in terms of creating space) when you are in your very low or very high register. When you sing an "ah" in your middle register, you don't need to drop your jaw down low, even in an attempt to blend. You can keep your mouth relatively closed (with only a "one-finger opening") and just have the open space be created by lifting your soft palate. 

Singing in choir is definitely one of the most rewarding things that I am involved with right now. Although I enjoy my volunteer work as a docent in a general sense, I am more rejuvenated when I leave my choir rehearsals. I am grateful that the act of singing allows not only for self-expression, but also self-improvement and learning.

Recent Lucy and Sam pics

It has been so neat to see Sam take on the role of an older brother over the past year and a half. Sam is such a sweet, loving boy. I knew that he would be great with a little sibling, but it makes me really happy to see how thoughtful, protective, and loving he is toward Lucy. In turn, Lucy adores Sam. She asks for him all the time when he is at school, and she cheers every afternoon when she sees his school bus pulling up to the bus stop.

Here are some of my favorite recent pictures of the two of them together.

Lucy update

St. Edward State Park, September 2015

It has been several months since I have been able to sit down and write an update on sweet little Lucy. These past few weeks have been extremely busy for me — sometimes to the point of feeling almost unmanageable — but everything has worked out in the end.

One of the reasons that I have been kept so busy is that Lucy is walking, crawling, and getting into just about everything. I feel like if I try to make progress on keeping the house clean, I'll take one step forward (working in one section of the house), while simultaneously Lucy puts me two steps back (by going into another room and making a mess while my attention is elsewhere). Ah well. She is very curious about a lot of things, which I'm glad about. I took this picture last week, after she got into the pantry and filing cabinet of the secretary desk:

Lucy's favorite activities now include playing with the DVD cases, "Goin' Fishin'" game, the Pizza Mania game, and putting lots and lots and lots of stickers in her Sesame Street coloring book (she likes to make a collage and layer the stickers on top of each other).

She is just starting to get into pretend games, especially if she gets to pretend feeding one of her stuffed animals or dolls. We got her a little picnic basket with some pretend food, and she likes to go on picnics at least once or twice a day.

She also has really gotten into bubble baths over the past week. Every time we ask her if she would like a bath, she responds, "Bubbles?"

This wrinkly nose face reminds me of my sister E when she was a little Wernkachunk

Lucy also really loves to read books right now. And she especially loves reading books in her little stuffed green chair. This chair used to be Sam's until about a week ago - we decided to get him a bean bag chair because Lucy was so obsessed with sitting in Sam's chair. We moved the green chair into her room, and she loves walking over to her bookshelf, choosing a book, and then coming back to settle herself into her chair. 

Right now she really loves the Child's Play board books, which have little cut-out sections to reveal images. For a few weeks she really liked reading the "This Old Man" book with me. She liked me to sing the song and tap the rhythm of the song on the book pages. But over the past week or two she has become really into "The Farmer in the Dell" book. I also tap the rhythm of the pages while I sing the song, and she likes that. If I don't tap, then she tries to tap for me.

Lucy began walking when she was about fourteen and a half months old, which was a lot later than Sam. She has still preferred to crawl though, and it has only been about a week that she has become determined to walk at all times. And now that her motor skills are improving, she likes to try to dance and hop. She especially likes dancing to the "Watch Me Sing" album that I used to listen to when I was little (with the "See Me Run" song!).

She is very social, happy, and affectionate. She likes to wake up with a smile and rarely is grumpy. And I love that she gives lots of cute kisses and hugs. These are the words that she uses on a regular basis right now:

• Mom
• Dad
• Sam (Although she is still hesitant to say this word sometimes, because she can tell that she doesn't quite get the "S" and "m" right. She was more confident when she didn't realize the distinction between the letters, when she used to say "Bam" or "Dam" for "Sam.")
• Diaper
• Kee-kee (cookie)
• Pih-pih (caterpillar)
• Bop
• Hhhhiii!
• Hooome!
• Poop
• Shoe
• Yes/yeah
• Bye
• Elmo
• Deet Deet ("Blues Clues" - she says this while opening and shutting her hands)
• Affe (giraffe)
• Ook (book)
• Uh-oh!
• Bluh-uh-luh (This means "banana." She says it by basically saying "bluh" and wiggling her tongue back and forth.)
• Up
• Shut
• Bubble

Here she is, trying to help herself to whatever she finds in the pantry

She is a darling girl and I really enjoy getting to spend so much time with her. Her hair is curly in the back, and it is especially curly when she gets out of the bath. I'm not sure if it will stay curly as her hair grows a bit longer, but it is very cute. The bouncy curls match her cute, cheerful personality. We love our little Bubba!