2021 Cross-Stitching Projects

In February, I asked for a William Morris Strawberry Thief cross-stitching kit for Valentine's Day. It took me several months to make it, on and off, but it was a fun project to complete during the pandemic. This is the project that I was working on when I visited Grandma J in May, and she gave me some of her unused embroidery floss (the light blue color) to help complete the project. 

It was fun to work on this project throughout the year. Not only did I work on it while I was in Utah, but I also remember taking it to Beacon Rock State Park when we went camping over Labor Day weekend. I just finished this bookmark about a week ago, but mostly because I stopped and started other cross-stitch projects in the fall. 

The next project I undertook was a bookmark of Munch's "The Scream." This project started as an idea after I went to Grandma J's funeral in the summer. When there, Auntie T brought my Grandma L's embroidery thread for me to have (since she knew that I had been working on the William Morris cross-stitch). I decided to use some of Grandma L's thread to make "The Scream" bookmark as a birthday present for my cousin A. I don't think that Grandma L would have ever envisioned that her embroidery thread would be used to make "The Scream" (!) but I think she would have been pleased to know that her granddaughter was using the thread to make something for another granddaughter. Grandma made cross-stitches for her grandchildren when we were little (she made one of my name and also a cross-stitch of our family as bears - I was represented by a little secretary bear at a typewriter). So I thought that this gift - from one granddaughter to another - seemed in line with something that Grandma would have enjoyed.

The next project also involved Grandma L's thread. For the several years leading up to her death, she would sent her great-grandchildren gingerbread house kits at Christmastime. In fact during one visit she wanted to remind Sam of these kits and introduced herself by saying, "I'm The Gingerbread Grandma!" I thought it would be fun to her use own thread to make some cross-stitch gingerbread houses for her great-grandchildren that she never got to meet. So I specifically chose this pattern so I could use her dark brown thread (for the heart, roof, and door). I hoped to make one for both of my sisters who have kids, but I only got one finished this year. I'll have to do the one for Baby O this coming Christmas instead.

It has been fun to work on these projects and feel connected to my grandmas. I've started one more project this year (and I have two more lined up), so these ones will be for 2022. Here is what I have been working on this week, while we have been snowed-in at RB:

My Grandmas’ Embroidery Floss

This summer I inherited two different sets of embroidery floss, one from each of my grandmas. My Grandma J gave me her embroidery floss earlier this spring. She had just moved into an assisted living center and I was staying at her vacant house in the evenings, while visiting her new apartment during the day. The floss was in the drawer of the bedroom I was staying in, and Grandma just happened to have the color floss that I needed to complete a cross-stitch project I had brought with me. She was very pleased to give me the floss and see me use it: I worked on my William Morris bookmark every day that we watched Hallmark shows and old movies together.

On this same trip, I showed my Auntie T my cross-stitch project and she mentioned that she had taken lots of embroidery floss from Grandma L's house, after Grandma L passed away a few years ago. When Grandma J died earlier this summer, Auntie T came out for the funeral and she brought Grandma L's embroidery floss to give to me.

So now I have two sets of embroidery floss, one from each grandma. I've been using colors from both of the sets for the current project I'm working on. Tonight I was thinking about how the ways that my grandmas chose to store their thread both remind me of them. They both are organized by color and number, although Grandma L kept hers even more contained by using small ziplock bags that are bound together by a silver ring. These threads are neatly wrapped in circles so they don't tangle. By contrast, Grandma J cut her floss into equidistant strands and tied them onto numbered boards. She left the strands loose, so they have a little bit of a quirky character as they enmesh and interact. 

I like to think about how these two collections - and two grandmas - form different parts of me: an organized, independent and slightly quirky person, who also feels the need to engage and intertwine into her community.