Tuesday, April 17, 2012

Sam's First Representational Art

Up until now, Sam hasn't been too interested in drawing or coloring. And if we do try to paint, he usually just wants to find out what happens when different colors are mixed together. He does like looking at art though, so I'm taking that as a good sign.

I've tried to not pressure him too much to make art, even though I am very interested in seeing what he might create. When he has painted anything or drawn little lines, I've tried to praise whatever he has created without asking him to tell me what the art "means" or what a stroke represents. I'd like to see if he decides to create representational or non-representational art on his own. Only once in a while will he tell tell me that a line is a "tree" or some other object.

However, this past Sunday, Sam was in an artsy mood. We sat down and he drew several pictures of me and him, without any prodding from me. I've never seen him draw anything with this much detail before (or take so much time to draw something), so I feel like I can truly call these Sam's first drawings. He drew six pictures altogether, but these two are my favorites:


This drawing is of me and Sam in a park. (Note the single arc that constitutes my hair. Love it!) The line which separates our bodies and curves around my head is a path. We're walking on the path together.

Sunday, April 15, 2012

Ode to Team Shirt #4







I've known that this post was going to be written for a long time. About four years ago I noticed that my "Team Shirt" was getting worn thin. It was probably about that time I decided that I better not wear it in public anymore - so it became one of my faithful pajama shirts. And then about two years ago, when holes started to form, I knew that I would have to pay homage to this shirt when I laid it to rest. And now, after two gaping holes in this shirt and one on the way (not to mention a black paint stain), I think it's time to retire my #4. [Sigh.]

J is going to be so pleased when he hears what I've decided. He's pleaded with me to get rid of this shirt for years. But I have so many great memories with this shirt, that it's been hard to let go. And then in December I read, The Story of Stuff: How Our Obsession with Stuff is Trashing the Planet, Our Communities, and our Health - and a Vision for Change. The author, Annie Leonard, discusses how people need to be more prudent and economical with the clothing and objects that they own, instead of simply buying new stuff all of the time. That book gave me the impetus to keep my holey shirt for several more months. I would think to myself, "I'm saving the planet!" whenever I put this shirt on. But really, I just wanted a reason to prolong the inevitable. I can't wear this shirt anymore. Maybe I can turn it into a rag (if J will let me), so I'll still feel like I'm saving the planet.

When I was a sophomore in college, my roommates bought matching "Special Olympics" shirts for all of us at a thrift store. We used to wear the Team Shirts while we studied at the library or walked around campus together. (Fer cute!) This shirt also went with me throughout Europe and to the tops of many mountain peaks. And we've been sleeping together for years. It's just hard to move on, with so many memories. And so, before I finally say goodbye to Team Shirt #4, I'll share some highlights of our relationship:


In Fall 2001, soon after my roommates bought the Team Shirts for us. We're standing around the old fire hydrant that we brought into our Miller apartment (photo removed).


I wore this shirt throughout the summer of 2002, when I was a camp counselor.


Fall of 2002, with my roommates at the Brick Haus. Phin didn't have a Team Shirt, but we quickly transformed her Dodgers shirt into a Team Shirt (photo removed).

In summer of 2003, my shirt and I went on a study abroad in Europe together. Here we at the acropolis in Athens!

Here we are in early fall of 2003. Llama Fest!

Now there is a gap of a few years in the chronology of pictures. I ended up leaving my Team Shirt at home while I was in Brazil on a mission, so as to preserve my shirt. (I ended up taking another blue shirt to Brazil instead, which enigmatically said, "Support the Group that Supports You." That shirt got totally hashed while I was in Brazil, so I'm glad I left #4 at home.) After wearing the Team Shirt for a while after my mission and marriage, I realized that the shirt was too worn for public wear. But then I consistently wore it as pajamas!

Hike to Willow Lake with Joanna (and the extended L family) on Memorial Day of 2007

This is early in the morning on Sam's second birthday (2010), right after we woke up in our cruise ship cabin. I'm glad that my shirt got go on a cruise to Alaska, even if it had to stay in the cabin!

I know that some of my roommates' Team Shirts traveled around the world as well. Ixoj wore her shirt when she taught English in Guatamala:


Every Team Shirt has a story. And I'm glad for the story that I created with mine.

Saturday, April 7, 2012

Deception Pass and Goose Rock

We have enjoyed some nice weather lately, even though the spurts of sunshine usually don't last for the whole day. When it is sunny, though, we still try to make the most of it! Not too long ago we took a ferry to Whidbey Island, enjoyed lunch in Coupeville, and then drove to Deception Pass.

Enjoying the short ferry ride to Whidbey Island

Although we didn't plan on hiking when we got to Deception Pass, the weather was so lovely that we couldn't resist. We first hiked down to the beach (about half a mile from the parking area by the main bridge) and spend some time on the shore.

Sam on the trail that leads to the beach


The blue water and rolling waves looked so beautiful

After hiking back up to the bridge, we decided to follow the trail in the opposite direction toward Goose Rock. Sam was a great sport and was able to do both short hikes by himself. I'd recommend either of these hikes to anyone who with small children. The trails weren't too steep or too long for Sam. And, it was fun to climb to Goose Rock and get a panoramic view of the water and land in the area.

The boys on the final stretch of the trail, leading up to the rocky summit


It started pouring heavy rain on our drive back home from Deception Pass. We were glad to enjoy the sunshine and blue skies while they lasted!

Tuesday, March 27, 2012

Color, Crown Molding, and Curtains

I feel ready to show off a few pictures of our small improvements to our house. We've done lots more more painting and work than I'm showing, but I thought I'd highlight just a few fun (and semi-noticeable) changes:

HOUSE BEFORE THE MOVE

OUR HOUSE AFTER THE MOVE
(This isn't the best photo, but you can see that we added a splash of color on the front door.)

KITCHEN BEFORE THE MOVE

OUR KITCHEN AFTER THE MOVE
What? You don't really see a difference besides the black knobs?!? We spent four Saturdays installing kickboards and crown molding for the cabinets. Argh! We have since repented of the desire to do our own finished woodwork projects. The crown molding needs a better paint job, but we are too tired to revisit this project right now.

OUR KITCHEN AFTER THE MOVE
I love this little secretary desk in the kitchen. Don't look too closely at the crown molding! It only looks nice from a distance!

No home improvements in this shot. Just a handsome little boy who likes to take pictures of his mom with a camera. This photo is of the corner of the kitchen, next to the secretary desk.

SAM'S BEDROOM
Ironically, the person in our family who cares least about interior design has ended up with the most finished bedroom in the house. Sam's red curtains arrived in the mail yesterday afternoon, and I quickly hemmed them last night. I think it was the first time that I completed a sewing project in a reasonable amount of time, without any major disasters.

SAM'S BEDROOM
Another shot of my handsome buddy taking a picture. I love the print of Matisse cut-outs that we found at IKEA last week (in the background). I think I might go back and buy this other one for one of the bare walls in Sam's room.

Thursday, March 22, 2012

If You Can't Say Something Nice...

I have never seen anything good come from snarky comments that undermine the belief systems or religion of another group. And I especially am bothered when people claim (or flippantly imply) that a certain group/person is "annoying," based on their belief system or the way that a group/person chooses to act (when such actions are somehow informed by a belief system). These people who complain that other religions are "annoying" could very well be undermining the belief system or ethics which they (the annoyed people) widely claim to uphold. It seems ironic and sad to me.

People! If you are annoyed by a certain group or belief system, can't you keep it to yourself? Does it do any good to complain or be snarky about it? Even if you oppose some of the political or ideological stances of a certain group, I can think of better ways to go about promoting your own agenda than complaining about, belittling, or attacking other people. When I notice people complaining about religion or a belief system, it seems to me that these complainers basically want to view themselves as being superior to the other group. And, in turn, these complaints seem to only function as a cry for validation or affirmation of such superiority. Do we really need to find superiority through the belittlement of others?

I don't think that religions and belief systems are things that should be flippantly described as "annoying" or "irritating." These systems are the things which give meaning and reason to a person's existence. Attacking such fundamental, personal aspects of a person's life seems heartless, especially if goal of the attack is self-aggrandizement.

Okay. It is ironic that I am complaining about people who complain. I get that. But this is an issue which is quite sensitive for me (for a myriad of reasons), and I find myself getting defensive and saddened when I read/hear such flippant remarks. And I don't just get defensive for myself. I get defensive and saddened on behalf my family/friends/neighbors/anyone who is the butt of such a joke or flippant remark.

Wednesday, March 14, 2012

The Miracle of America Mobile

Over the past two weeks or so, I have seen three —three!— old Nissan Stanza Wagons. The first one was blue, the second one was white, and then I saw a brown one this afternoon. I'm always shocked (and pleased!) when I come across one of these cars. I can't believe that there are still some which are still running. Each time I see one, I'm reminded that I need to write a post in homage of the Miracle of America Mobile, which used to be my car in college.

My family had this car for a long time (probably about fifteen years), before this car ended up being handed off to me and my sister V. We bought this car when it was brand new (in 1986 or 1987?), when I was pretty young. It was our first brand-new car in our family, and I have a vague recollection of tediously waiting in a car dealership while my dad haggled with the salesman over a good price for the car.

I remember going for long car trips in the Stanza Wagon when I was little. V and I would sit on the very back seats, which faced backward (so we looked out the back window of the hatch door). I remember being on one particularly long road trip, sitting backward, and staring at some people who were driving behind our car. The driver and his wife kept waving at me and V, which I thought was strange. I don't think we ever waved back. Now that I think about it, it was probably amusing for those people to see two little girls continually staring at them for a long time, as our cars drove down a long stretch of highway in Wyoming.

Not long after we bought this car, the hubcaps were stolen while we lived in Los Angeles. We never replaced them - I suppose it gave the car a little more character. And then many years down the road, my mom put a bumper sticker on the back of the car: "See the Miracle of America Museum in Polson, Montana!" (We visited that museum on a trip once, and my mom really liked the message of patriotism conveyed by the museum.) And hence, the car got it's name: "The Miracle of America Mobile" (or "Miracle" for short). And that car really was a miracle. It lived for a long, long time (just like my cousins' Volkswagen Quantum wagon, which lived so long that Sars once had a dream that the Quantum had been translated!).

By the time I took "Miracle" to college, a second sticker had been affixed to the bumper (to complete the patriotic look of the car?): a Power of Pride bumper sticker. So, in true patriotic spirit, V and I putted around our college town in our miraculous car. My roommates and I would sometimes go for joyrides to the grocery store a few blocks away; we would open the sunroof and sliding back doors while driving (which we claimed would convert the car into a Jeep). One time, we even took the car all the way to B City on a trip for ice cream. That trip really pushed my car to its limits; it really couldn't handle driving more than 60 miles or so in a single drive. And oh, it was such a temperamental little vehicle: you couldn't drive right at 65 mph, or the car would start to shake quite violently. But if you drove at 60 or 70 mph, your ride would be as smooth as can be.

I loved this car. (I loved it so much, in fact, that in 2002 I obviously persuaded someone (Joanna?) to take pictures of me with my car, which I included in this post.) I loved driving a stick shift; I felt more "tough" and tomboyish if I could shift gears. I also loved to decorate the car in my own small way; I would often rotate the decorations that hung from my rear view mirror. Sometimes I would hang a cowboy hat air freshener (to go along with my tough-ish image, I suppose), and other times I would hang one of the miniature disco balls that I got at Classic Skating.

Oh, those days with the Miracle of America Mobile were great. Even today, car trips and driving adventures pale in comparison with those that we experienced in Miracle.

Wednesday, March 7, 2012

Shirley Temple and Me

When I was young, I loved to watch Shirley Temple movies. My family owned several VHS tapes of Shirley Temple films, and my favorites included The Bluebird (which FOX created to compete with MGM's film The Wizard of Oz) and The Little Princess. As I got older, I felt a special connection with Shirley Temple, because of a letter that I got from my mother.

I don't know exactly why, but I was reminded of this letter today when I was driving in the car. When I got home, I pulled out the letter to read it again. My mom wrote this letter when I was at camp as a young teenager, sometime in the mid-1990s. Here's an excerpt:

"When I see old Shirley Temple movies and see Shirley Temple being extra grown up and mature and cheerful for her age - I think, 'M is like that.' Even though you have had some less cheerful times (on the surface or on your face expression) usually you are cheerful again soon. I see you use wisdom at a young age to be a leader to yourself to pull yourself out of gloominess. Of course we all have good reasons to be gloomy but I have seen you bring yourself back to cheerfulness even when the reason to be gloomy still exists..."

The letter continues with my mom saying that she hopes I don't get any headaches while I am at camp (which is ironic, because I'm typing this post while fending off a slight headache).

Although I don't feel much like Shirley Temple, I've always liked that my mom saw a similarity between me and the charming little child actress. And even more, I like that my mom believed that I have the ability to "pull [myself] out of gloominess." Sometimes I don't feel like I use the right coping mechanisms to deal with gloominess; I'd rather ignore problems and pull myself out of a grumpy mood through denial (something I am trying to correct).

But I do want to be a cheerful person, and I'm glad that my mom recognized that desire in me.